Another weekend passed, another lesson learned. Let us say goodbye to that and move on, but just before we do so let me vent a little, may I? I actually want to get your opinion about my current situation.
I met this young man (twenty something ish thirty) whom I've thuroughly enjoyed conversations with on the phone and his overall demeanor. Well, I rarely initiate anything especially calls or texts so you can imagine initiating a date would be totally out of the question. After a week of small talk he calls me to set up a date, having been that I've lived in Florida for almost 2 months now with barely any human interaction you can imagine how I reluctantly agreeded (insert sarcastic voice here).
Friday comes and he calls and texts and seems to be interested in taking me out. Once again I hate pushy guys so I'm not pushy myself ; it may even be taken as passive sometimes but like simply going with the flow. I throw on my jeans and T-shirt because it was raining and seemed to be one of those nights, after all the run around about where to go blah blah (insert lame stuff here) I decide not to even bother going out. Excuse me for liking a gentleman who has an evening planned out even if it means appetizers at a near by restaurant for an hour or so... give me something to work with please! So much for a night out with a person I was actually enjoying and interested in spending some "quality time" with. He apologized and even tried to come up with something last minute to do. He go the stiff arm and -_- face... Well it didn't stop there....
I met a female during orientation for one of my jobs and we clicked. She expressed to me that she wanted to hit up this night club and as opposed as I am to meeting new people at night clubs it gets me out of the house so I agreed. Long story short she also stood me up/ let me down.
Am I not being aggressive enough? Whats the deal with all these flakey a$$ people? I mean they seem very cool and genuine but they all have let me down (except for a few, few as in 2).
So all in all, I'm still trying to find my place and although I've been here for a few months months I feel anxious and disappointed. Funny thing is I was in Miami one weekend and some promoter stopped me and my girlfriend and invited us to a club then noticed the accent and asked where we were from. When we said Boston a huge smile came across his face, he explained that most of his good friends are from Boston and they we are really down to earth honest people. Damn right!
What's the dilly-O with folks out here? Everyone is boo'ed up (yes with this fine ass weather) and even if you wanted to have a jump off people are so flakey that you can't predict who's down to jump and who ain't. SMDH...I'm tired of it and want to head back home asap...
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