You want it? Here you go, you can have it...

(a brief video for the flirting impaired)
This past weekend I went out with a few coworkers of mine and my boss. My coworker brought along a friend who seemed to have been digging my vibes. (Truth be told I'm quiet oblivious when it comes to men flirting with me and definitely not upon first meeting them) Any how, my boss arrives and she begins to flirt with the gentleman who was flirting with me. As I watch her behavior I begin to chuckle a little inside: considering there wasn't that much alcohol involved yet I couldn't understand why a woman would throw herself at a guy who clearly wasn't giving her signs back??? She positioned herself directly in the middle of the gentleman and I, and sat in between his legs. She allowed him to touch her a** and rub on her legs. *bbm confused face and if you don't have a blackberry go ask one of your friends what it looks like* I'm 2o something years old and this is a 33yr old woman, you would think that I would be the one making moves like this. She also asked me to accompany her to the bathroom (she had already gone to the bathroom alone so why ask me to go this time???) I'm no fool, I may play naive to things but I'm far from understanding behaviors of men and women (it's what I do for a living). All in all a great night and interesting nonetheless... needless to say I bagged and she's mad, I hope this doesn't affect her behavior with me at work *damn should have thought that through*
Are these flirting tactics of the norm?
I personally don't flirt like this, I don't like when men do it to me so I make a point not do it to others. I rather be myself and yes play a little hard to get because when I see that you go after it, it proves to me that you want it. But this?!?! I couldn't comprehend what was going on. OK, that's a lie I knew exactly what was going on but I still don't understand why women do it.
Flirting is an art. A way to express yourself to your significant other without speaking. Its lightly touching, eyes speaking your emotions, movements that say everything without saying anything. Its beautiful, and something that comes natural to us as humans. Imagine being able to give your woman/man goosebumps with the slightest touch and blow on their neck. It shouldn't stop after you've made that person your bf/gf, play with it,have fun, and like foreplay its necessary to keep things hot.
Some other flirting tips:
1. Don't touch too much
2. Laughing too much or too loud is obnoxious
3. If you don't feel comfortable than you're doing too much
4. Read their body language and eyes (don't waste your good flirting skills with someone who's not interested)
please feel free to add... good day and good flirting